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writes: I am reluctant to display my sexual feelings to anyone for that matter on this earth for the fear of being mainpulated / controlled by them later on. As all i was doing was meant to be done for sex only. Though most people think that way, i think otherwise. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): A man told me that to sucking a man balls is what men want, how true is this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Ok I’ll do my best to answer this one, In theory your caution it a positive thing after all who would want to put there heart on the line when they sleep with someone?
But put into practice It doesn’t always work the way you planned and your heart does rule your head and I’ll tell you why human emotions are powerful things, we even chemically bond from kissing it releases chain reaction of hormones in are body and brain,
So it’s simple to see why especially women, some Men can emotionally detach themselves but this all comes down to the individuals again why?
Chemicals, some Men can stop themselves from feeling this strong connection to someone after sleeping with them, And some women supposedly can but I personally believe that’s learned behavior and a bit of acting on there part but good on them really,
Ok so if you wish to operate from this emotionally detached place you need to find a partner who says they want that too and means it,
You wouldn’t fear anyone controlling you if you found the right partner,
Though remember that! And maybe you will lose the fear of being manipulated / controlled because in the end where all just after being loved and if someone’s trapping you that’s different,
But not all people will be like that don’t be so afraid keep your heart open a little or you could be missing out on something fabulous,
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): try to have a long lasting relatinship.if a guy wanted to have sex with you he wil NOT want to wait. you have to figure out if their for real or not.try to get his real feelings to pour out. im sorry but i dont have any other advice for you.good luck
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