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writes:Dear cupid,I am worried about the safety of my kids concerning their father. We are not together because of our abusive relationship and I am worried that he might try to hurt our children after the court says he is okay to be around. (only a matter of time) Before I had met him he was with another woman, they dated for a year in a different state/province she also lives there. They had a daughter together but something happened bewtween them because they are not together, he has no rights to his daughter, his daughter doesnt have his last name, and I have never met either of them. When we were dating he hid this from me. I dont know to much about his background and anything he ever told me was a lie or not the whole truth. How can I find out if he has done something terrible in some other part of the world? like a compplete criminal background check containing any kind of assaults, restraing orders, fellonys, sex assaults, any kind off jail time. When we had our last court the lawyer I had said he couldnt get his info because it was out of state. I'm here thinking what if he went to jail for stabbing some one, or beat the heck out of his daughters mother, or is in a gang. That isnt some one I would ever want my kids be around for safety reasons. My feeling are strongly suggesting that something isnt right. Is there any way of finding this kind of information out? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 You did great and those info's could be provided to your lawyer when dealing with visitations or any matters related to him.
He may have mellowed through the ages but you have to take extra precautions with your children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advise! I did some searching and I was able to run a national backgroud check on him(I think that's what it was called) this allowed me to find out if had any criminal records anywhere within the states for a price of $80 I thought it was over priced. But it even showed all of his family members and there records. Well I was right all along and have more to worry about now more than ever. It was the worst....attempted murder caseS S meaning more than one, several drug trafficing cases, endangerment to minors, The list went on and on. I have know idea how this is going to turn out. And to think I thought he was such a great guy when I first met him, can't always judge a book by it's cover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): It may only be your thought actually. i think he will not heart his kids. do not worry too much about it.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 April 2010):
This link may help you search for some one's criminal records.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Free-Criminal-Records-Search-Tips----How-to-Find-Free-Criminal-Records-Resources-Online&id=474038
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