A
female
age
51-59,
*ricababy
writes:i have been a 3 year relationship with a wonderful man my problem is that all my life i have wanted to be accepted by my father and mother especially my father and every relationship i have been in i looked for father figures in them this relationship i am in has been so great but i feel that i am pushing my guy away because of my parents not accepting me they have told me they never wanted me and my self esteem is low but my guy is so supportive i don't want to lose him but i want him to know that. he knows about my parents but i feel that i am pushing him away what can i do? what can i tell him so he will know that i am not pushing him away, please help me?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): If your parents have told you that they never wanted you then they are a couple of arseholes and never deserved to have you in the first place. i make no apologies for what i say if this is true what you say. Why let them ruin your life...just because there soposed to be parents does not mean they must be right...and somthing is wrong with you...parents should never say that to their children. You are too wounded or BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD BE because of what they said...leave it all in the past and remember their words are worthless just like their parenting obviously. Go where happiness lives and kind words. Father figure not needed , you just believe you should have one.
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reader, ImHereTooHelp  +, writes (20 August 2008):
hey
i can relate to this situation (:
and you should stay with this
guy beacause if your happy
then your parents should
accept that and too me
they dont seem very
suportive and you should tell
them how you feel
and tell ti guy how you feel
as well ,
i hope ive helped (:
xx
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