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I'm afraid ill lose him

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Article - (30 December 2008) 7 Comments - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, lexiegeneva:) writes:

Ok well my boyfriend has sooo many friends that are girls and he hands out with them more than me and he's always sayin jokes like sayin he madeout with another girl. He talks to other girls more than me and he liked 4 other girls awhile back. He said he didn't like them, he just thought they were hot. He never talks to me at school. And it seems like he cares about his friends more than he cares about me. What do I do? I get so mad to were I just want to ignore him. Every weekend he's hangin out with another girl but he gets mad and worried when I go somewhere with my guyfriends. He never acts like a boyfriend. All he does is hold my hand and all we do is text. I need advice on how to make all this better! Do I break up with him or not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

Well I say you hang out with him more and if he asks why then just say"we don't spend enough time together,or on the other hand just ignore him if hes being stupid.if i were you i would dump him you can always met someone else later in life.Someone better.as my mu says it's just child love!

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A female reader, pastfirst United States +, writes (1 January 2009):

pastfirst agony auntYou're young and are wasting your time!

Your bf is very immature and not ready for a relationship.

As they say, "There are plenty more fish in the sea".

Happy New Year!

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A male reader, roadman United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

roadman agony auntAt your age its likey the love won't last any how..when your in your teens its wise not to get to hooked up in the love business,they come and go,later on down the line it gets a bit more deeper..

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A female reader, cHARR United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

You know what you need to do.

Sit down and have a talk with him. Not an argument, a nice mature responsible chin wag.

You need to both calm down with the possesiveness. A relationship doesn't become stronger with jelaousy.

good luck

x

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A female reader, lexiegeneva:) United States +, writes (30 December 2008):

lexiegeneva:) is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your help :)

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A female reader, pink-frog United States +, writes (30 December 2008):

to tell you the truth you really need to brake up with him or talk to him and tell him wat ur feeling and if you see that maby hes just joking around then tell him im being serious and you should to i really wana know. tell him that and if he is still fooling around and not paying then tell him right there its over if he truly likes you hell chase you tell you hes sorry and he will probrobly wana go out with you again tell him if you dont change i will leave you and i will not take you back is he starts doing better and talking to you and watever you guys didnt do befor and now your doing then he does like you if he aks the same then you need to leave him for real hope this helped k

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A female reader, ZELLY Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (30 December 2008):

leave his ass ...............he like that you are sad over him.makes him feel like brad bitt when he is truluy brad shitt............he does not respect you

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