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writes:I have had a crush on a girl in my college for about 3 and a half years now.(we both are 16) we talk a bit like casual hi-hello( though I am always the one to approach her) . I never told her I liked her but I think she figured it out by the way I act.I have been thinking of telling her now.But the problem is that I think she doesn't like me and if I tell her then in the future she may feel awkward around me and then we will not even have those short conversation that we have now.moreover I think she is quite good for me someone like me or I may just be feeling this because I like her a lot.any advice would be a lot of help.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (15 November 2014):
I think people that think they need to tell their crush that they like them are dooming themselves to failure.
She may not like you yet because she really doesn't know you. How do you change that? By asking her out! Not by "revealing your feelings" and scaring her away.
If you're not sure she likes you then start by asking her to a "safe" date, like coffee. It lets her know you're interested and gives you time to get to know each other on a more personal level. However it's not very threatening so she's more likely to say yes than if you asked her out on a real date.
Good luck!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 November 2014):
 If you are sure she doesn't like you then telling her you like her would achieve nothing. However you can gauge her interest by asking her to have lunch with you and have longer talks. The reason why it is a crush is because you don't know much about her besides the casual hello. It is okay to be attracted to a person based on looks but if you want more than friendship you have to get to know each other more.
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