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writes:I met a very nice guy. he is so handsome and successful. his is an amputee. he lost his two legs in the age of 10. now, he likes me and i'm still not sure of my feelings towards him. he told my friend that he really likes me and wants to propose to me if i just give a sign of approval. i'm so afraid that i might hurt him. i haven't made up my mind yet wether to say yes or no. if i refused him , i'm afraid that he might think that i refused him cuz of his legs. i have no problem with that. i'm just confused with my feelings.Thanks all Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): right, so u met him through the interenet? I am extremely lost in this. cause these factors can affect the way yu view things.. if you feel more comfortabl we can exchange messages?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much for ur answers!
Well, for the marriage issue I just mean that he is building too may dreams for us together. He is studying medicine and can't get married for the next 3 years. I met him again , and we are chat online. He is a real gentle man, he is really kind. I'm just worried now cuz i may love him just because he loves me, and because of his nice care for me! I don't want that to happen! any ideas please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): how ong have you two been going out for?proposal is a big thing, yu shouldn't say ys if you are confused. marriage is a big step in everyones life and it is smething you shoudl think carefully. If he does propose to you i suggest you explain to him that you are not ready for that step, but not becuase of his physcal features but becuase of your own feelings. I am sure, that if he is a reasonable young man he will understand. keep us updated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Why don't you give him approval, but tell him that you'd like to date him for a while before you agree to get married. This will let you establish if you really like him as a partner or not.
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