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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, all. Hope you can help some, as i'm clueless.Three weeks ago i met a smart and sexy woman who makes me laugh and calls me on my bullshit. We've crammed alot of dates in; she's cooked for me twice(she's a cajun wiz), we drink vino and play cards and slow dance... all dreamy and perfect. The pace we are setting would be fine... if she wasn't FOUR MONTHS-SEPARATED! She was honest from the beginning, which i appreciate, and has only slowly filled in the details the more clear it becomes to us how much we like each other. The story is that she and her husband of four years have been out of love for about two, and have been living seperate lives in the same house. And that moving out, for them, was no more trouble than the physical labor involved. We're aware and respectful of each others place in this, and i would love to just soak this great and unexpected person in- but at this speed i can't relax. There's no doubt we really do want each other, but is this romance a natural whirl-wind... or is it rebound mania?Sorry so long! Thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 March 2008):
 It sounds lovely! You're right to be concerned about being the rebound guy, I agree, but as long as she's being honest with you, I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it. Why not see a little less of each other for the next few weeks so she has some time to actually miss you for a bit?
Good luck, isn't the first part of a romance fantastic?
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