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writes:Please tell me if there's anything wrong in this. I'm above my fiance financially, he doesn't have a regular income and somehow depends on his dad, who seldom helps him. We want to get married in seven months time. Do I cut off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): can i just say ... love isn't about money .. its about your feelings for another person!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 It sounds to me that you are looking for a reason to break off with him, and using money as an excuse.
-Frank B Kermit
www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 June 2008):
I think you'd better postpone the wedding because how the hell are you going to afford it if only one of you is working? How will you afford to get a place to live in together?
Tell him you want to be a stable couple with stable jobs before you jump into marriage. Money problems are one of the main causes of divorce so you are giving yourselves the best shot if you are both bringing in an income.
Having said that, don't make him get the first job he can and stick in it. Make him figure out his long terms goals and get on the way to them.
Good Luck!! xx
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