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I'm about to buy a house with my soon-to-be hubby but haven't told my family yet! They rely on me, help!

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Question - (4 August 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2012)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *pumie writes:

Hi all. I'm about to own my own house with my soon to be hubby. My dad doesn't know I'm planning to leave home. my dad is 69 working an about to retire this year december. I'm so stressed cause I can see that its going to heavy on my side as I'm going to be the one who is going to be working and I have assist on both side and that is paying my bond with my fiance as he earns than me plus at home taking care of everything. I just don't know what to do cause I can see that I'm going to struggle as I'm still paying for my sibling school fees. I just need an urgent advice cause I'm so stressed cause I don't even earn that much to take care of two families.

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A female reader, shesaidwhat Australia +, writes (5 August 2012):

you need to be honest and speak the truth

do what you feel is right choice for you and stay true to your feelings

iff there is no solution for your problem then make a resolution.. meaning think about it and explain how it might work and then tell them what you think you can do and make sure you stick to it.

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