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I'm a virgin and I' mnot sure I'll be "enough" for my experienced girl

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Question - (1 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *tephen1127 writes:

hello i have question i am with this girl but she has had sex but i anit im only 15 but i anit had sex yet, but i recon i will have sex with her pretty soon and i am very scared about and there is 3 reasons why and that is my penis size and that is 15cm with hard and am i going to be good at it and that i wont find the hole.

the main one is that my penis is to small what do i do?

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (1 September 2008):

baddogbj agony auntKudos to StraightUp absolutely the right advice - get the oral sex right (and there is some good information on that on this site, check some posts from DoubleM) and you will be so far ahead of the average teenage boy that this girl will think you are a star. Also the oral will remove any problems "finding the hole" as you will be pretty darn well aquainted with it.

Also, 15cm is more than adequate to make almost any woman very very happy if you go about things in the right way. Don't go comparing yourself to guys that you see in porn.

Make sure that you have condoms with you / available - crazy stupid to have sex without them - and practice putting them on so that it doesn't look like the first time you've done it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008):

I do not understand why if this was a girl posting about her "experienced" boyfriend there would be people in a rave about how you are too young. Which the fact this you are a bit young. But you are getting to the legal age so u will probably do it no matter what anyone says sooo some advice..use a condom, its just as important to guys as to girls, especially if your girlfriend is experienced you don't know if she has any stds that maybe even she isn't aware of, plus you don't want to get her pregnant do you? And..don't worry about your size contrary to the belief size does not matter.

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A male reader, brett785 United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2008):

brett785 agony auntit is just easy anuf and a lot ov ppl worry about ther first time

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008):

would it be ok if i asked how many partners your girlfriend hashad and for how long?

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A male reader, Straight Up1 Canada +, writes (1 September 2008):

Straight Up1 agony auntAt your ages it doesn't really matter that she has had sex already...no boys at your age really know what they are doing...so you will be as good as any other guys she has been with!!

And an old wise arguement...its not the size of the dog that wins the fight...its the size of the fight in the dog!!

The sex part of your first few encounters will only be a blink in the night time wise...so you need to make sure that the foreplay and oral part of your game is on!!

do some searching on the net about oral sex with women and get some basic skills in your mind!! I would give you some tips of my own...but not sure they would be printed on this site hahaa!!

Quick tip...when you have given a good round of oral and are moving in for the kill!! any time once you are started you feel like it is "ending" stop...pull back and go back to oral for a while.... then back to the grind!!

for a young fella...this should be enough to give you at least a A- game!! Hahaa!!

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A male reader, Straight Up1 Canada +, writes (1 September 2008):

Straight Up1 agony auntAt your ages it doesn't really matter that she has had sex already...no boys at your age really know what they are doing...so you will be as good as any other guys she has been with!!

And an old wise arguement...its not the size of the dog that wins the fight...its the size of the fight in the dog!!

The sex part of your first few encounters will only be a blink in the night time wise...so you need to make sure that the foreplay and oral part of your game is on!!

do some searching on the net about oral sex with women and get some basic skills in your mind!! I would give you some tips of my own...but not sure they would be printed on this site hahaa!!

Quick tip...when you have given a good round of oral and are moving in for the kill!! any time once you are started you feel like it is "ending" stop...pull back and go back to oral for a while.... then back to the grind!!

for a young fella...this should be enough to give you at least a A- game!! Hahaa!!

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