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*tephen1127
writes:hello everyone, me and this girl has been getting long really well and she just asked me out, and i said i tell you tomorrow. but the girl that i have falling in love with is a girl how most of my mates dont like, but i really do love her and if i go out with her then i will think that my mates will not like me no more what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, brett785 +, writes (1 September 2008):
 well it not up 2 your frends ho u go out whit but most ov my freads dident like my ex girl but i still got on wiv them
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): Oh my, the lives of adolescents can be harsh. Listen, hun..I have a sneaking suspicion that this girl you like hasn't done much to make your friends dislike her. In the teen world, anything as small as fashion, hair, looks, dating partners, how you talk, walk, a lot of silly things-- can be uncool and make or break a teen's social life. So in other words, one's friendships can be pretty shallow. If this girl make you gloriously happy and you both respect each other, have similar values, converse well and have fun together...then you do what makes you the happiest! Don't count on your friends to control your life just because they 'don't like her'. MAke your own choices! Date her and enjoy her company. If your friends 'judge' you and decide not to like you, anymore because you are with her....well then they are not true friends are they.
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reader, Straight Up1  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 Ah the ultimate choice for every guy at some point in life...my mates or my gal!! Hahaa!You aren't alone...and chances are at some point you will deal with this again!!If your pals don't like her...you have to ask them straight up...WHY??!! chances are they don't want your time taken away from them and spent with her...its a jealousy thing....and I am guessing these mates don't have their own girlfriends ??BUT..on the other hand..if the problem with this girl goes beyond a few friends and with your family or numerous females then you may have to step out of your shoes for a moment... check your smaller male brain at the door and try to see what all the others see....and why!! sometimes us fellas get blinded by women and need some mates to steer us back to earth!! Hahaa!!
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