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writes:I find myself extremely turned on by gay men. Im not gay myself but i have always loved and admired homosexual people. However about six months ago I pursued a relationship with this guy and he told me he wasnt interested in me because he was gay. That would normally turn off a straight girls and they would forget about him but i found myself wanting him even more. Even though he didnt want to have sex with me i did end up watching him and another guy have sex. It turned me on like nothing else. Ever since then i found myself to be attracted to gay men and whenever i become attracted to a guy who is believed to be straight,a lot of the times he ends up being gay. I have made out with a few gay guys since then and i even slept with one. I mean, are these feelings normal? Am I weird? Any of you other straight women out there turned on by gay men? What can I do? I mean i know they are gay so i dont push anything. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, maxpaxbaby  +, writes (7 March 2009):
I love gay men. I love to watch 2 men physically attracted to each other. The thought that they want to enter each others bodies really turns me on. Sucking and fucking is so horny. I want to see and take part in all of it. I also think that gay guys would be more attentive to a females needs and also more understanding.
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reader, supergirl08 +, writes (24 October 2008):
No, you are not weird at all. It just means that you are very straight. I am a female in my 20's and I love men! especially gay men. Gay men take alot of time to look good,they work out,dress nice,etc. So I think that makes them even more hotter. Just like most men are turned on by watching two females going at it..well the same applies to watching two males going at it, you are soooo lucky by the way, that you had the chance to watch two gay guys go at it. If a straight female is not turned on by two gay guys then there must be something wrong with them, they must be a little bi or lesbian but don't know it. How could you not be attracted to gay men? They are gorgeous with nice muscular bodies! If I watched two gay men going at it, I would want to be in the middle...How could a female not be attracted to that. Very normal.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (4 January 2008):
 it sort of sounds like you like what you can't have, except i guess if it's more of a sexual desire it must be more. maybe you can find a bi man who could share both his homo- and heterosexual lifestyles with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): Darlin, you're not alone. I don't know why, but I am extremely turned on by gay men. It's not so much the men, but the action. I would classify it as a type of fetish. I mean, it's not like we choose our fetishes, they're just kind of there, within us. Do you think people who have feet fetishes choose to have a feet fetish? Mmmmmmmmm I wants me some tasty toe cheese today! LOL! (kidding) A lot of people get the same thing out of watching two women go at it. Same thing, just a different sex. That's the way I look at it. I don't think we're wierd at all. I think it's pretty cool that you actually got to watch 2 men go at it in person, that's hot!
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