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I'm a lesbian and I'm attracted to my dad's ex wife!

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Question - (13 September 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *lleycat123 writes:

I'm 16 and I'm a lesbian. My parents have been married my whole life, but before my dad met my mom he was married once before for less than a year. I recently came across his ex wife and I'm extremely attracted to her, which I feel like is very wrong but I can't help how I feel. She lives in a small town where everyone knows everyone and my family is visiting my grandparents who live in that town in a few months, we're all going to a carnival kind of thing that everyone in the town goes to, and my dads ex wife will definitely be there. My dad said if she sees him she'll probably say hello and talk for awhile because they all have the same high school friends and what not. First of all, what should I NOT do if I meet her? I'm always really awkward and say stupid things. Second of all, how do I STOP thinking about her? I find my self fantasizing about my DADS EX WIFE. IT IS SO WRONG. I just can't stop and I dont know what to do. :( What is wrong with me and how do I contain it?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 September 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntstop beating yourself up... you have a crush... lesbian or not... even straight girls get girl crushes...

and she's your dad's ex wife but you don't know her and never knew her growing up... so it's not like your crushing on a family member...

NOTHING is wrong with you...

and eventually it will pass.....

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