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writes: I have a huge crush on this girl. I am by the way a female. I am only 15 yrs old. She even asked me out. I went to her house for a sleepover and we kissed. Does this mean I'm a lesbian?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): i do not think so un less you are atracted to other girls
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): It depends on your opinion, i say no, because it is our feelings, and it is the way that we feel, i have a crush on a girl aswell, and, my other girl that is a friend said that when the time is right, i can ask her out, or maybe how she feels about me, my frien that gave me that advise is the girl that always lirts with me, and i dont want her, i want the one that i love, by the way, i am a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): you go girl,try it out a little,see how it feels
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): Your not alone my 1st sexual partner was with a boy at 14 and I know in not a freak and you drone seem like one to me
I have has sexual partner of both genders 9 boy’s and 4 girl I am now 17 years old and still haven’t regretted what I’ve dun
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reader, Frost +, writes (24 November 2005):
Welcome to your sexuality; this can be one of the most personal things you will want to find questions to. The first thing you have to remember is sexuality can come at any age. Now, you may not choose to find a defined sexuality, there is no pressure to; though it is definately way too early to decide. The best thing to do is not worry about it, just let time and more experience help you decide for yourself what you believe you are, and make sure to talk to this girl about being unsure of your sexuality. The most important is to have fun! And don't let this pressure you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2005): No. Not at all. This means you are just a normal and healthy 15 year old girl. Dont let it go further. Trust me, wait till you try a guys kiss. then only you ll know how real it'll feel.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (12 November 2005):
 I say, it is more likely that you are experimenting with your sexuality. While you have feelings for a girl this week you may have feelings for a boy next. There is nothing at all wrong with being a lesbian, no matter what anyone says, but because you are so young I would wait to say that you are definitely gay or not gay, you have your whole life to put labels on youself. Just be careful, it does not matter if it is a girl or boy you need to be smart, and protect yourself.
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (12 November 2005):
 No, it doesn't mean you are a lesbian. Don't make your mind up to giving yourself a label at this stage. Your hormones are raging and it is easy to be confused by your feelings just now. Don't panic. I am not lesbian, I like men, but I believe we are not all 100% one or the other. In this increasingly enlightened and accepting sexual age, I think we are just discovering we are only partially one sex or the other and you need more time to discover yourself and grow. If it is a true and trustworthy friendship, just be comforted by each other and be friends. Take your time and see how you feel when you meet a boy who you fancy. Will you feel the same pull and attraction?
At th end of the day, it is trust and companionship that counts and a healthy sex life once you feel the time is right. Male of female, where ever you feel comfort and love in your life. You are only experimenting and it is fine, but try to make important decisions on your sexuality when you are a little older.
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