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anonymous
writes: I am 35 and have just started seeing a divorced man who is 15 years older that me and has 3 children from his marraige, i am a virgin and dont know whether to tell him that in case he thinks there is something wrong with me or will he guess i am a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008): ok ther is nothing wrong with that, so tell him and if he calls u a freak or maes fun of u, that means he dosn't care enough 4 u. Hope this helps
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reader, charliebonce +, writes (6 April 2006):
Just tell him. if he calls you a freak or something like that, maybe he's not the one for you. he should understand. In fact, you'll probably look back and laugh about you being so nervous.
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reader, GLforever +, writes (4 April 2006):
Be honest and tell him. He will probably be very impressed and consider himself lucky. Not many 50-year-olds get to have a virgin... :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): If you can't tell him it is not the right time to take things further. When you feel confident and intimate enough with him you can do that and I am sure he will be kind. There is nothing to be ashamed about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): Just tell him what is your concern. He will understand you. Don't expect to understand you without telling him about it. After all, we are complicated :P
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