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writes:Hi, I'm a 19 year old male and I've never had sex. i've went to do it twice now but both times i had troubles finding places and am very embarrassed about it. i don't know if it is because i have a lanky shape or if it's just nerves but i'm scared to try it again because no doubt i wont get it right. it would be ok if she went on top i suppose but when i try to go on top i can't ever see where i am going if you get me? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 I give seminar for adult male virgins on my website. http://www.franktalks.com/?content=frankseminar_amv You can read the reivews about what they learned. There is nothing wrong with you. You are just nervous, and yes the first time you do it might not be your best, but do not pressure yourself. You are still 19, not 29 or 39. Read some medical textbooks on sexuality and women's bodies, and learn to use your tongue and hands...it will help you build the confidence you need to work with the other body parts.
-FBK
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): I don't think there is a problem here. I was 20 almost 21 before I had sex for the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): both people have to be ready
it don't matter about age or shape it's about when its the right moment you obviously aren't ready yet its nothing to be ashamed of
keep trying though and don't give up!
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): When you find the right person wether its "the one" or your "soul mate" things just kinda fall in place for themselves, because when your that inlove your not thinking about being nervous or messing up, your only thought is how much you love that person. Maybe you just havent found the right person to make love to yet.
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (14 May 2007):
 dnt feel embarrased ya 19 and havent had sex i waited till i was 23 before i found my perfect partner she went on top and when it was my turn 2 go on top she put it in 4 me and after 2-3 go's i got it in the end.
so my advice try it with someone whos had sex before 2 i would of been really bad at sex now if me & my ex was virgins but i do feel ya pain
but do what i did wv my new girlfriend if u r doing it with a virgin finger out ya girlfriend as u r putting ya cock in her pussy then where ya fingers r .. thats where ya penis gos
i hope that helped
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