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writes: I would like to know. If I have not had sex since I was 35 and now I am 68 will it hurt. I would love to have the chemistry that this person is my match and romance I do love. I need answers? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2019): I was a party to a similar situation; you would have never guessed it was 20 years for her. Really didn't know about the long layoff, a month later she fessed up. No doctor, no lube, no condom, no soreness. All went well. I was 25, she 45 -- and it was pretty lively. A young widow she lived in my apartment complex. Friends with bens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2019): A gynecologist just because you're going to have sex? That's over egging it a bit. Just do it and see how it goes! It's perfectly normal for people in their sixties and seventies to have sex. It's not a medical condition.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (13 December 2019):
 - Trip to the gynaecologist first
- Lots of arousal before any penetration
- Lots of lube (even if you do make your own)
- A bullet vibrator available to help with arousal
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 December 2019):
 Maybe a visit to your gynecologist would be a good start?
Other then that... Make sure you are fully aroused before having sex? Consider having a lubricant handy in case you don't produce much yourself.
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