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writes: dear sir or madam.i am a 50 yr old man. and have met thr girl of my dreams. i love her to bits and plan to marry her. at the morment i am having erection problems and it is really getting me down. can you help me??
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (22 January 2006):
 Hi there
The first thing you must do is identify when you are having these problems? And, have you ever had them before?
If this is the first time you have suffered with erection trouble chances are it may be linked to how you view your girlfriend....do you have her on a pedastal? Do you view her as so perfect you are in a strange way frightened of her? This is just one avenue you need to explore. If this is the case then you need to learn to relax and stop being so scared of *failing* her.
If this isn't the case then a trip to your GP for some blood tests and a chat about what is going on in your sex life is your best bet. It could be there is a physical cause, or maybe you are taking medication which may cause temporary impotence. Either way don't run scared from this problem as you have years of love-making, love and laughter to enjoy with the love of your life. I hope this helps, even if just a little. So bite the bullet and go see your GP.
Good Luck x
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