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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi i am a 26 eyar old man, and i have no relationship experience, i mean i haven't even kissed a girl yet. I have only been dating a girl for a few months with no success. What can i do?i get really nervous when i like a girl and that makes everything so hard. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (27 August 2012):
Your approach is probably fine. Keep up your circle of friends. Do things that will help to meet new people too and give it time. Have you considered dating websites?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2012): Well i do go out a lot with my friends, male and female, plus i socialize with young female studends daily in my work (i am a PhD student), probably i'm talking more to women than men in my everyday life. This happens the last two or three years though, in my high school and first college years i was very socially awkward but i have changed a lot since then. I have asked out girls i was interested in (maybe 10 my whole life), but they showed little to no interest. Do you think my approach method is not good enough? maybe too slow because i need time to overcome my anxiety?
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male
reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (24 August 2012):
The best way to build your confidence is to get out with friends as often as you can. The more conversations you have socially, the more confident and interesting you will become.
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female
reader, debedee +, writes (24 August 2012):
Maybe you could build your confidence by just learning to speak to females as friends, rather than seeing them as romantic interests immediately ? Make an effort to talk to them, strike up conversations. Once you feel more confident, the rest will likely come naturally.
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