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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi, im in a relationship with a 42 year old man (im 20yrs) ive been with him for 4yrs now and for about 3 months now the bedroom department has been slow and over in a couple of minuets, what can i do to spice it up i dont want to loose him. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, seacutiepie +, writes (25 August 2007):
Hi there. I am 24 and my partner is 38. I find that mine can be a little down in bed. It is usually becaue he is tired, or upset about someting. I like to plan a day away. Mayby a drive, then lunch and a movie. They need to be spoilt sometimes, feel special. I do agree with the toys, they like to have a play, get something new. Maybe buy something sexy, set up a night. Do lots of foreplay. So you enjoy it for longer.But one other thing you should think about, is the fact that when he retired, you still have to work for a further 22 years before you catch up. If you have children, he will be a lot older, mayby unable to keep up with them...Hope it all works out for you...
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reader, UnknownEntity +, writes (24 August 2007):
so when you were 16 he was 38...22 year gap...
i think thats a bit sickening but now that ur 20(above 18)
i not dont care about that... hes getting old n his todger is weary... try viagra or "toys" to get him more exited...
n lasting longer in the "bed department"
-UnknownEntity
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male
reader, DJ8433 +, writes (24 August 2007):
Has he been able to help you reach orgasm and satisfy you in the past?
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