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writes:Hi, I have a problem, a really big huge problem. I am 17 next month and my penis is just over 8 inches long. I realise that this is unusally big for a lad of my age and I would not mind only a rumour has started at school that I am rather well endowed and I get a few girls teasing me about my apparent size and even asking me out on dates. They call me the Sexy Stud as a nickname.I really would like a girlfreind, but I want a proper, genuine girlfreind who wants me for me and likes my personality. I don't want a girl who just wants me for my body and certain parts of it.Will I ever be in a geniune relationship or will I have a life of slutty, insincere girls who just want me becuase they want to have 8 and a half inches of man meat inside them.Help!!!
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reader, akwardman1234  +, writes (26 October 2011):
man im turn 17 in a week and i have 9-10 depending on the day and mood but the same thing happened to me but im not all for whoring around there's nothing wrong with it but id look for a girl thats going to like u for u
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (22 February 2010):
 Man com'on go out on date with them and when they'll get to know you they will like you for who you are. I'm same age and same size and there that size is totaly normal and enjoy life for love of god man . There are kids with 3-4 inch penises try to feel how they feel about rumor of they're penis.
Now man up and have some fun with those girls they might acctualy like your personality but they like to make fun of you by this
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reader, casperfiol +, writes (9 May 2009):
is 8in really that big? cuz im 15 and i have an 8incher but i dont feel like it really matters, like i did pass through some laughing and gossiping but it just comes and goes, dont worry, not all girls are the same, and im sure ull find one that's after u for who u are and not what u have
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): ok, ummm........so whats the problem here again? you lost me just after the first sentence. lol, no but really you are a little young to worry about sex and stuff but you will fall in love with someone who loves you for you, not just, well you know, she will love you for you and the other part will just be a little added bonus
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reader, Blahhhhh  +, writes (9 June 2008):
I have the same problem. Although I am 13 and my penis is 7.5 inches long and girls want me for it. I have a girlfriend thugh and she does not want anything sexual so I am happy with that because I don't need any sexual stuff at my age, I would suggest finding a girl out side of your school, although not to far away because long relationships never work. So don't worry!:)
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 date galz that have not been exposed to this rumours and at 17years you are still young to be worrying about ur sex life this is because the galz you may be meeting are still undermature or the older ones may just want to exploit you. You note that any person below the age of 18 is a child according to the UNCRC so keep off the old mamas and date other young galz who are not from your school. Learn the person well before both of you decide that you are ready for sexi.e when true bond of frienship and love has been established for a good period of time. do not let the rumours weigh your self esteem... be very careful!! as this will be another problem you'd have to deal with.. take care and you are very normal.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (24 May 2008):
 hun someone will love you for you no matter what size you are whether its 4 inch or 12 inch. but reserve your size to yourself and ignore these comments from these girls it will eventually die down. dont worry things will work out fine in the end give it sometime aphex
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Well rumors are stupid and one of the facts are there just rumors not 100% fact. I know it will be hard but you will just have to do your best to ignore it and hopfully let the topic die down. You shouldnt be ashamed if anything, and if you can tell that a slut if just after you for your body then just tell her, sorry but your not my type. Things will soon blow over. Sorry I Couldnt Be Of More Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Thanks for the advice, it has resolved my anxiety.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (24 May 2008):
 In common with most school gossip, it stems from jealousy.
There is worse you could be teased for, take it as a complement.
So don't be in a rush to fulfill people's expectations of you, and don't put yourself under any pressure.
Take life as it comes, you will meet a nice genuine girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Trust me, you will easily get a genuine girlfriend who likes you for you and not whats in your trousers. So many guys in your postition are arrogant and take advantage of the 'slutty girls', the nice girls will see you for your personality. The fact that you have these rumours about you, coupled with the fact that people will be able to tell that you are a nice guy who wants a nice, genuine girl will get you a lovely girlfriend in no time :P
You my friend, appear to be an endangered species. A species that a lot of girls search really hard for. (I'm not talking about the penis). I hope she finds you soon, good luck!
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reader, blackbeltbaby +, writes (24 May 2008):
 sometimes it is very easy for these rumours to get out of hand.
yu should be proud of your body wether your penis is 1 inch or 8.
you will find a girlfiend who loves you for you.
my suguesstion (however frustrating) is to hold form having sex with a new girlfriend. if she is very pushy and sexual, it may be that she is wanted to see if this rumour is true (or she could just want to get her hands on you).
either way, embrace your body and do not let other peple get you down. i know its a cliche, but i really is not about size but what you do with it. sex may be slightly uncomfortable so make sure she is as turned on as possible, pleanty of foreplay, or failing that uses a lubricant and be a gentle lover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Of course you'll get a genuine girlfriend honey, it'll just take time for these rumours to die down. But try and feel lucky, because a lot of guys would love your size! Yet, please remember, when you do decide to have sex with someone (I'm not sure how the rumours started, maybe you've already lost your virginity, I'm not sure) please remember that girls can experience pain during sex (some more, some less) and since you are a little bigger than normal, be considerate! Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): wow, ok, so many guys would feel blessed to have your problem!
I really have to say that if you want a genuine gf, you will get one. YOu will be attracted to a girl who likes you for who you are. You will feel the chemistry with the kind of girl you want to be with, and not with the slutty ones!
ya the slutty ones will come on to you but you can turn them down, and keep your reputation lol!
But basically, look beyond all the girls who seem shallow and horrible... look to get to know girls who dont look like tarts, and youll find a gf who likes you for you!
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