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female
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30-35,
*harmillion
writes:Hey, I'm 17 and I feel very guilty about sex, I started last year and never told my mom and she found out in a messed up way so I broke up with the guy that devastated me and I feel like I should be innocent for her sake because she believe I've only done it once. I feel like I'm faking in front of her, when my family talks about sex it's like I can't be apart of it cuz my mom married her first, my sister did too and so on. So it'll be like I'm slutty or loose in their eyes. I am sexualy active and like every teen is extremely hormonally charged, I want sex with my new boyfriend all the time but I feel after when I think about it in front of them, I've lost my innocence and I'm not so sweet. I don't really know my place or how I should be feeling about this, I don't wanna regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): You should do whatever you want, it is your life, not your moms or your sisters. If they married there first times then good for them, that doesn't make them better then people who don't do that. And it does not make you a slut to be having sex with your boyfriend when you are 17! That is being like any other teenager. If your mom thinks any less of you for doing something that EVERYONE does, then she is not a caring mother and doesn't love her child uncondtionaly like she should. I had a baby when I was 16 (so your already doing better then I did) and my family couldn't have been more supportive or understanding. Your mom should love you no matter what and she should not judge you over your sex life, she shouldn't judge you at all.
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