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writes:I am a 15. I have never told anyone this, but I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend. He is 21, and dating someone. Who he loves. I don't know if she loves him. From what I know, she doesn't. Here's the thing. I know he flirts with me whenever he's over. And he talks to his band about me. But he told my brother that he doesn't like me at all. I don't know if he was just saying that because I'm only 15, or because I'm the little sister. But I don't know how to ask him if he does feel something or if its just flirting. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): Hi my dear, you are too young for a 21 year old to be in love with you. Only when you are older will you know who is right for you. You are under age to have a relationship and that is difficult pressure for anyone that is not your age. Best to realise that this phase will pass in a few years and that your hormones will eventually settle.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to everyone of your comment. They were all in some way or another helpful. I might do a follow up just so you all can see what happened. If you want! Thank you so much for help! (:
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair  +, writes (21 February 2011):
Whoa!!!
Tell him how you feel but i mean he's in a relationship and you say that he loves this person so its most likely just flirting and he probably doesnt feel anything. But i may be wrong.
But sure tell him he may feel the same and you could live happily ever after lol.:)
Good Luck
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reader, rocker_grl_96  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Ok so as a fellow 15 year old i am gonna tell you what i think. I mean yea sure the other person who commented was right, it Technically is illegal but i am pretty sure that is only if your fucking the dude, which i assume that you are not lol. There is NO LAW saying you to cant date or something and besides just don't be all mackin on each other in broad day light and stuff and the cops cant really do much about it. But the first thing you should so it tell him directly how you feel and ask him to honestly tell you how he feels about you.
P.S. tell me how it goes! I have invested in this relationship so i wanna hear what happens next lol :D
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reader, rachel aniston  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 i think you should not tell him ,these all things are happening at this age you have to be brave at this time and just ignore whatever is happening in your heart .it may sound harsh and silly but the thing is once you allowed your heart to think about this matter you wont be able to concentrate on anything,just ignore the feeling and thats how its gonna work
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): I'll start this off with this: CRIME. Even if he loves you, refer to my previous comment. Even if you love him, refer to my opening statement. If this was absolute true love (unlikely), he'll wait 3 yrs. But at this stage it's not even worth the hassle (read: jailtime) of finding out. A six year age gap is huge when it's between a 21 yo and a 15 yo. You still have a few years before you reach maturity, even if you think otherwise... Especially if you think otherwise. Both of you should be looking for someone closer to your own ages.
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