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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife. I'm really not the type who does this sort of thing, and I did happen to be extremely drunk. So I'm faced with the problem of whether I should hate myself and feel really guilty or blame him because he shouldn't have been staring at me all night and asked for my number or taken advantage of a drunk, underage girl. *Confused face* What do you lot think? (slag comments probably deserved)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Lay off the sauce until you are older and can handle it, stop telling people about this slip up, and move on with your life.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 Hi, you have made a mistake, stop beating yourself up for it. What's done is done and there is not much you can do to change it. As hard as it may be try to move on and make sure that you don't make the same mistake again. Give yourself a break.
Take care, mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): Does she know. I say she does and does not mind. I think you should chat with him and see where it takes you. My wife joined in after I had been with this gal for a while. We all have a good time now. My wife cant have a baby so we are thinking about her having our baby for us. Maybe that is what they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know if his wife knows. The only people that I know so far who knows, are the people I have told.
And I don't actually know who he is, or who his wife is. We were in a pub/party thing held by a friend of a friend so I didn't really know most people.
I didn't actually give him my number, but I gave him my msn, so hopefully he will be feeling crap about it too and won't add me.
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reader, Variety +, writes (29 July 2007):
 You don't accidentely kiss someone. If you had been drinking too much then that can be blamed as a contributing factor but it was not an accident.Does his wife know?You are not a slag. If you were then you would make a habit of these things and you would not be feeling remorse for it.If I were you I would deleate his number, ignore him and move on with your life.It is up to you if you tell the wife or not.Please message me if you need to talk. xxx
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