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*ecca emma louise
writes:this boy i was with brought me gifts and said he wanted to get married and have kids and get our own place as soon as possible. im only fourteen and he is twenty. i just founf out he has a four year old daughter with his ex and i ended it, he keeps texting me saying he wants me back but then when i said im not ready to commit i want to enjoy my teens, he then accused me saying im a slag who used him and that i obviously was cheating on him. i wasnt and it hurts to be accused. i did love him and he wants me back but i cant give in again just coz he says he'll change. he doesnt trust me and now i dont trust me. how can i stop him texting me? he wont leave me alone? i just cant be with him though no matter what :( xxx
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Tell your parents right away, block him number and if he keep harassing you, have your parents call the police.
A 20 year old guy have no business courting or chasing after a 14 year old girl.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (11 July 2010):
Dont respond to text messages. If you see him or if he speaks to you, say as little as possible (one word answers are best) and then leave.
Ignoring him will make the text messges more frequent and angrier at first (that means its working). If you stick to it and dont send him a single message, the nuumber of message will decrease and he will give up.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Block his number or change yours. You need to tell your parents what's going on, too, in case this guy tries to escalate things.
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