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*onely_chick4life
writes:I'm 14 and I'm really shy around certain people. I haven't dated anybody before. I don't know why but I really like this guy but I have never talked to him before but I have seen him in the hallways and he is way more outgoing then I am. Every time I see him I want to disappear but at the same time I want to be loud and be proud. I see him only twice in the hallways but I also see him before school. I have been trying to talk to him in the hallways but it's so crowded and he is usually in front of me so I can't just like just walk slower. I think that I can catch up to him but when ever I see him my heart beats so loudly. What can I say to him? How should I do it? I really need advice please help!!!
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (24 February 2007):
 ok this is very normal for gurls i like soemone but me n him r best friends n i finally got the courage to ask him out at skool so my advise is when u see him dont freak say hi n just start a normal convosation with him like he was ur best friend for the longest time then maybe u wont feel so shy 'round him and that should work
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reader, si101  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 i was the same age when i asked a girl out i just one day walked over to asked one of her friends to tell her don't know how i did it we didn't know each other but she said yes and if he doesn't know who you are just get one of your mates to ask for you if that helps :)
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reader, AskEve +, writes (24 February 2007):
 Why don't you go up to him before school starts and say to him "Excuse me do you have the right time, I think my watch has stopped?" Then wait for him to answer you. You could then ask him what year he's in and what are his favourite subjects. If you feel awkward or if he isn't continuing the conversation then you can just say "hey thanks a lot for the time, maybe see you around," and leave it at that. Next time you see him say Hi! Hopefully with a little time, you and him will be able to build up a friendship.
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