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*aryluver1971
writes: I'm 13 and I'm in love with someone who's 36. He's married with two adorable children! I don't know what to do. How do I get over him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (3 January 2008):
Is he your teacher by any chance? I prefer older men myself, and its really hard to deal with when you don't think they'll ever return your feelings. I'm in love with my teacher, i can't get over him... so i'm fighting for him! Yeah, what i intend on doing is wrong. But you can't help falling in love with someone, its your hearts desire! Just see how things are in a couple of months, it mite just be a short phase you're going thru. If you wanna chat then feel free to mail me x
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (2 January 2008):
Hi, what you feel for this man is a crush, it's perfectly normal. You will get over him in time, i had a variety of crushes when i was aged 10-16 years of age. None lasted that long. Even now i am married i have a bit of a thing for Johnny Depp (doesn't every woman!!) it's harmless,don't worry about it. When you meet someone special one day, you will laugh when you look back on this.
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reader, chlez83 +, writes (2 January 2008):
First of all i must tell you that what you feel is very normal.I also get attracted to olderr women.However,you need to learn that part of growing up is knowing how to handle your feelings.Ok you've realised that you have feelings for this man,what next?You are thinking of trying out something with him,right?Very normal for the brain to give you options.On the other hand i also imagine that you are scared of what may happen.
As someone who cares and never judges people i would advise you to follow your heart and make the right choice.I know you are confused and the best thing you can do right now is to keep away from him so you can think clearly and make the right decision.Please don't do something you may regret for da rest of your life.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): baby girl you are only 13 you are still a baby you have so much to live for. Please let this old men go cause he can be your daddy and can get arresested fo dealing with a minor. You are looking for a father figure and thats not the way to go, enjoy your young life and date kids your own age
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reader, cheryluk24 +, writes (2 January 2008):
first of all someone of ur age shouldnt even consider anything happening between u 2 and isuggest u forget him it will cause alot of trouble for him his wife and kids and even u walk away and dont have any contact.
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