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writes:im 11 and all my friends have had dates im not pretty or skinny so no boys have asked me out on a date yet. should i make the first move and ask a boy out? Reply to this Question
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reader, zina +, writes (28 September 2007):
zina is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all the advice but it turns out all my friends lied to me and theyve never even had a guy say "hi" to him
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reader, Chippy334  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 honey when I was 11 I didn't even know girls existed until I had one walk up and kiss me. I'm not saying walk up to any guy and shove your tongue down his throat. but just wait some guy would notice you. Trust me. You may even have better luck with an older guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Please, your only 11 year old, I'm 17 so I don't how much has changed but when I was your age lots of girls didn't hve b/f and there was no problems with that. Maybe it's just the group your hanging with? My sisters 12 and shes very pretty and she hasn't had a b/f yet and I don't think she will till shes older, that age is too young anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Just because your mates have already had their first boyfriends doesn't mean you have to. You are only young so don't worry. One day there will be a boy that you'd be interested in and you could ask out but don't rush to get past the first boyfriend base. Don't ask any random boy out. Enjoy your childhood before you get into all this romantic stuff.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Hi Zena,I was a little unsure about responding because I know Im gonna sound like your Dad. I have a daughter whos 10 and I can see some of this happening with her too. Its really hard when you feel left out or left behind. You see other people doing things and you feel like your missing somthing. I have a little secret for you. Just because other kids are doing things doesnt mean your missing out on somthing. Me telling you this isnt probably enough to make you feel better but I do know that as you grow older you will see the truth. You will become your own woman and you wont need to look around at what other people are doing to figure out who you are. Try to be patient and confident. Theres alot of life infront of you and this stuff is barely the beginning. Chin up sweetie!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Don't rush it, your time will come sure enough. Don't be in a panic to get dates just because all your friends have. You are still very young, relax, have fun and have a laugh with your mates and you will more than likely get a date when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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