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anonymous
writes:Hey I was wondering.... if you had oral sex and finger sex are you still a virgin? I was just wondering.
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reader, mercy hagan  +, writes (19 May 2012):
Viginity is a treasureable thing in the lives of a woman and that deemed no more when penetration of the penis takes place.The thing is in some communities it is adviced when you a child to squat and wash the vagina when bathing by putting your finger there what if the hymen breaks at that early stage?, but the thing is the child is still deemed a virgin.So I think fingering doesn't breaks ones virginity.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): sex is still sex,you're not exactly a virgin!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Thanks to the poster who had the statistics on Catholic school girls performing oral sex and Hispanic girls having anal sex. I need to meet some of those girls, LOL!!! I went to Catholic school, but that was before oral sex was popular (just my luck I guess!) What was the source of your statistics? A government agency or a private, nonprofit group.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Lol! I've never heard it called finger sex lol. But I'd still say you were a virgin if you did have finger sex :]
(Lmao finger sex).
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Technically, it seems that virginity is described as vaginal penetration that usually "breaks" the woman's hymen if intact (and I suppose you know what that is). Fingering of the vagina may also result in such elimination, as may other activities such as sports, bicycle or horseback riding and other things. Some young women have little or no hymen to begin with, but there is usually some presence to a degree.
Oral stimulation to a female probably does not represent a loss of virginity, in my opinion, and is a fairly safe way for young ladies to enjoy some sexuality and pleasure. But if she provides oral stimulation for a male, including oral intake of his sperm, I think that a young woman's virginity is at least questionable by some standards. Maybe that should be defined more as a loss of "innocence," which would seem to be unquestionable.
Today, societal standards are subject to review and change, but in some cases and places, a young woman's degree of sexual experience may still count as a loss of virginity even if her vagina remains "unspoiled," so to speak. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you remain virginal in your opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): As far as some people are concerned as long as the hymen is unbroken you're a virgin. However from a moral standpoint sex is sex whether it involves the hymen or not.
As far as I'm concerned a person who engages in those activities is not a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Hmmm, have you had a penis inside your vagina? If not you are still a virgin even if you don't have your 'hymen'. Oral sex does not count in regards to virginity.1) 85% of Catholic school girl perform 'oral' sex on males, but 70% of them remain 'vaginal virgins' till their wedding night.2) 50% of hispanic girls in the US have anal sex on a regular, but remain vaginal virgins during junior high and senior high school years.
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Viginty is not solely defined by mere intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): yes you will still be a virgin.
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reader, g247  +, writes (23 February 2008):
Yes. Penatrative sex is the only thing that doesn't define you as a 'virgin'.
But who cares if you're a virgin or not? That's your business.
It's just a label, don't worry about it!
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