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writes: Have been broken with my GF of two months for two weeks (she initiated the split). It has been tough because I really fell hard for her. We agreed to start over as friends, even though I'd much rather be her BF again. She sent me a message this past Monday night telling me some mundane stuff, and the end result was that I picked her up and she slept over at my house (on the couch - Her air conditioning was broken). When she left the next morning, she kissed me on the cheek and said bye. Later that day she called me and asked if I'd like to go with her to her volleyball game and then our for drinks, she would pick me up. I said sure. After drinks, she drove me back home. I tried to plead my case, "I wish you'd have given us more time, etc.." She said it was her not me, and that she doesn't do well with relationships past a certain point (one I suppose we'd reached. Then she said that she shouldn't have kissed me on the cheek that morning and instead proceeded to kiss me on the mouth. Nothing passionate, but enough to have this gnawing at me for the last 3 days. She left, and I sent her a message telling her that if she EVER changed her mind, I'd be willing, but that I would always be her friend. My sense is that she is somewhat conflicted about her decision to split up. What should I do to get her back?
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reader, tux  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 You need to figure out whether she wants to be back with you or not.. if she doesn't and continues kissing you, she's just leading you on. in that case, you're better off staying away from her because you will not be able to let her go and you will not be able to move on... This is why a lot of time friends after relationships don't work out.. because you try to hurry it.. and old feelings are still fresh. Good luck.
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