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If my boyfriend says he loves me then why would he almost cheat? if he did it once would he do it again?

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Question - (20 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *_Mae93 writes:

so i have been wanting to find out about this for awhile now

If a guy says he loves you and he shows that he loves you by like taking care of you,giving you money to get things you need/want, spending time with you. make's sure your happy. cuddles ect. then why would he almost cheat?

the story is, last month one day oct. (sunday) my boyfriend and i got into a fight i got mad at him i went to his house got my things and left. a week later oct 15. i found out that he was texting girls ( i look at his phone cause he left his phone at home when he went to work cause he phone was turned off) he had texted 3 girls one girl is obsessed with him has been for awhile! he told her " we could have been happy together but you wanna listen to the drama" another girl he asked" will you come to my house" the other girl " would you wanna be more then friends" i confronted him about it. he said that he regretted it.he stopped it all he stoped texting two of the girls the other girl has a boyfriend and they only talk as friends. i asked him why did he almost cheat and he said he really didnt have a reason as of why he almost cheated he said he was going to cheat but was afraid i'd find out in his case i still found out. he said he wasn't gonna do it again cause he knows i'd break up with him and be done with him. so why does a guy cheat/almost cheat if he says/shows he loves

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011):

You are going to have to be very carefull with this man my ex started off like that then I founf out he had been cheating for months just watch out for any signs of unusual or suspicious behavior

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A female reader, moon river  United Kingdom +, writes (20 November 2011):

moon river  agony auntThis guy is dishonest and I think trust is important that he's not worth your time

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