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writes:If my boyfriend has female friends and I have male ones, why when he talks to them (either phone or email) if I ask what's up with them, how are they, that his conversations and who he talks to are none of my business? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers. I did ask him and also told him that he makes it hard for me to remain close to him. He knows I was upset last night and told him I was unsure on coming over tonight. But I had no intention on going over tonight anyway. He said sometimes we need a break, I told him I might need a permanet break. He really upset me with it. He is just very hard to share anything with. I can with him but he won't with me. Which doesn't make it right. He asked me last night a question about a session I had with a therapist yesterday, and I wouldn't tell him what happend. He couldn't understand why. I became quiet the rest of the evening. He even looked for me to email him today on his Blackberry and I never did. He couldn't understand why. But I think now it might be sinking in.Well thank you again, if you have any more ideas please let me know.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 April 2008):
It depends how you are asking....
If he thinks you are going to be a jealous wife - he might get defensive.
But if you are just asking as part of conversation and he snaps at you then that is a bit weird. When he tells you that, what do you say back?
I think it's only fair to ask why he's snappy. My husband and I chat about eachother's friends male and female.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 April 2008):
 B/c he's an arse.
Or he doesn't like you checking up on him.
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