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writes: i am a gay man in his thirtys still saring a house with his father my boy friend asked me to look after his dog for a day but my father will not let it in the house he also will not exept that i am gay he can not keep the house with out the money he gets off me should i move out and get my own place and let him suffer or sould i just stay where i am because if he looses this house he will have nothing but now it is getting to much for me i feel like just moving away but i have to many friends and a good job what shoud i do please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2006): It sounds like your Dad is being very unreasonable. If you don't move out now what will you do? Will you continue to live with your Dad and help him keep his house for the next 10, 20 or more years? It has to end sometime, and it may as well be now - for your sake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): You are a young guy with everything going for you. If your Dad cant take the fact you are gay then why help him? Parents should respect you for the way you are. I think he is taking advantage of the fact you have a good job and it sounds like he is just pure lazy. You are a strong person. Get your own place, be proud of being gay, lead your own life :)! Visit your Dad (live nearby) but stop letting him sponge off your money and then not accepting you for the way you are. Just find your own place and go! Good luck and be strong, you only live once! xxx
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 Tell your controlling father the facts, your money enable him to keep the house, you are gay and proud of it so he needs to accept this and get over it, you have a friend who has a dog and you want to help the friend out by having the dog stay for the day, dog stays or you move out and he looses house as you are not going to suffer this emotional blackmail any longer you pay so should have equal stay about the house.
Personally I think it is time you moved out and led your own life, you will not grow if you stay in this closeted enviroment, if your dad looses the house so it is, we are not responsible for the fate of our parents and have our own path to follow like they followed theres.
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