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writes: My boyfriend is an aspiring actor who just caught a break on a very well known soap opera. While I'm just a regular girl who works a regular job at old Navy. How do I deal with the competition of that life style and girls, especially one particular girl who’s on the show and wants him!?
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reader, stina  +, writes (6 July 2006):
 If it makes you feel any better, I have male friends in the tv industry and they ALL say that in person many of the people look ridiculous in all of the make up that is caked on their faces.
Anyway, you also shouldn't worry about you competing with other girls, regardless of where they work and where you work because your boyfriend is with *you* for a reason. (I doubt he picked you because of where you work!) Just be happy for him and be supportive. If you get angry and upset because he's advancing in his career path, it may just push him away. It will be fine. All changes require some sort of adjustment, you know? :)
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reader, NaintS +, writes (25 June 2006):
Ok my bf is a big time dancer/choreographer. He is always on tour, always traveling, doing music videos, meeting people and its really tough for me. So I think maybe I can help. I say trust him and support him. I'm sure your not as ordinary as you say you are. And shoot girl that's ya man, after awhile make sure your showing your face around so these other women know who his woman is.
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reader, Qtpie06 +, writes (25 June 2006):
Look girl, if u sat around everyday and worried about the 1 million women that will be around him, u will be worrying forever! There's really nothing that will not make u think about this except u finding security in ur relationship and trusting ur man. If he hasn't given u any reason not to trust him, then please give him the benefit of the doubt. If he sees that ur insecure, it will drive him away. So to feel better about urself, dress up a little more and feel like u are as beautiful as these girls and he will feel it too. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): With an elite team of estheticians, hairdressers, and lighting, you would look pretty amazing, too. No one can compete with TV, because it's one of you against a crack team of tightly synchronized beautifying agents. She looks like shit in the morning, I promise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): dontt worry aboutt it. so what you work at old navy. i mean like when your boyfriend first starts he wont be like a big star or anything and he may never become one, so you may never have to worry. but i think that you should just continue doing your regular stuff and if you really feel your not good enough or the compitions too muchh them maybe you shouldd save up and do something to make yourself feel more glamerous or girlie, like pull out some old clothes and put outfits together or buy new outfits or give yourself a make over. buy something really pretty. get a new job thats more glamerous in your opinion. its really your self estem so if you feel glamerous and act that way, everyone else will assum you are, trust me things will turn out fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2006): If it is true love there will be no doubts and no competiton.
If there are/is then he is very shallow and you are better off
without him.
Good luck!
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