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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Thank you for even opening this thread .. I'm only a 16yr old male and this is the first time i've been this heart broken, I don't know if this applies to you but have you ever waited for someone you love soo much and in the end ...they slowly chipped off your heart and destroyed it in one go? For 5 months i've waited for her to let go of her first love (her first love has a g/f and is leaving to another state to study) but at one stage during shaolin training ...her first love came and she spent the whole entire time with her first love ... i was watching from afar her showing her affection towards him. And this literally made my heart hurt ..and i ended up in tears. Only recently, i decided to stop waiting for her. When i ran out on her, i thought i would be someone worth chasing after. But she didn't, i knew then that it was a one sided love. She even told me she liked me ... but i guess it was a lie ..I really don't know what to do ..if i waited longer would i have gotten her? She made me feel like ..trash..unworthy..pathetic..an idiot. please help me ..Sincerely, Anonymous Writer Reply to this Question
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reader, suebe  +, writes (13 April 2008):
well all i can say is its her loss if she can not see what a great guy you are..dont worry you will find someone how will be able to see how great you are.untill then just be yourself and try and have fun.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Who is she and why do you value her opinions so much?
She can think whatever she wants but you are not what you described here.
Prove to her that you are not what she thinks you are.
You will never get her and you are just wasting your time over her.
Forget her and move on and don't feel down about it.
She isn't worth your attentions nor regrets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): Sounds like me. I loved this girl but she needed time to get over her ex boyfriend, i was willing to wait for her because of how i felt about her, but weeks turned to months and i decided to give up. After 3years me and this girl started talking again and i started falling for her again, and the same thing happened with us, she made me wait for weeks and i was like "you know, its never going to change"
Please remember that if a girl really wants to be with you, nothing should stand in their way! If they make you wait, they arent worth your time, trust me!
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reader, lyd_foster +, writes (13 April 2008):
 wow this girl is playing you around
if she made you feel that bad then she isnt worth you
i dont want to sound mean but her heart maby set with this other guy.
if you feel like you should wait for her then do
but there are plenty of girls out there that wont mess you around
my advice is that you try and get over her and i know how hard it is. but once yoru over that person so many more options open out and you will be meeting new girls that you could fall in love with and have a great realtionship
=D
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