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writes: i am 18 and have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and 1 month. Any way he's been acting strange lately since the beginning of this year. he had a few uni probs and didnt tell me anything about it until the day after he decided he was going to america 'to sort something out'. we planned to go out on our anniversary and he said he was working, then the next week i suggested we give it another try and he tells me he dont go out on sundays. everytime i suggest we go out it becomes an issue.i'll text hime or ring him and it takes him 1 week to reply, and for valentines day he doesnt even call or text, but i already have for him, i'll do anything for him. do you think im trying too hard or should i call it a day because he doesnt know i exist anymore.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 February 2006):
 You are behaving like a doormat and this guy is wiping his feet all over you sweetheart. Stand up for yourself and develop some self-respect. Stop phoning, stop texting and stay out of cantact with him altogether. You behaviour smacks of desperation and he knows it. Therefore he is treating you with disdain and in a really bad way. But because you are blinded by your love for him, you do not see this.
Read you question back to yourself, then ask yourself, what would you do if a friend said this same thing to you. Would you tell her to *bin him*? Wouldn't you tell her he was a user and a loser.
Please be strong, you dont need this guy or the heartache and aggro he gives you. Drop all contact with him, allow yourself a little time to grieve for *what might have been* (if he had been at all functional as a human being!)then move on and find somebody who is worthy of you and the love you have to give.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (15 February 2006):
 his not intrested in you anymore hun, look dont worry about him, call it a day with this guy because you can do better anyway.
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