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writes:For a while now I have been dating an Army Man. We have been apart for 11 days now and it just feels like I can't function sometimes. We have talked about marriage but I'm a little scared, if I'm going through the motions after only 11 days, am I really cut out to be an Army Wife? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): I would wait until he is done with his service to get serious. If your clock is ticking and you want to have a baby soon just make sure he is going to be done serving very soon. good luck
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (20 July 2011):
 Give yourself time. Don't plan to get married yet. If you can't handle 11 days, then you surely can't handle being apart months at a time. Just enjoy being with him, and while he's gone, find some new hobbies, hang out with family and friends, read some stories, etc. and try not to focus on him so much. It's already stressful on you for him to be risking his life so don't put any more stress on yourself. Let him do his job and while he's gone, that gives both of you more time to miss each other and makes the times you reconnect that much special.
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