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If I ask for her new number will she think im stalking her ? What should I say to her ?

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Question - (9 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!).

I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dream about her a few times per week and never seem to forget about her. The first text she sent me said "I like you cos you don't try to act all cool like everyone else does and you just be yourself".

I don't seem to be interested in any girls apart from her. She leaves school this year and I want to know if I should ask her for her number.

One of her friends asked me if I still fancied her a year later but I lied by saying no. I often catch her looking at me in class.

Do you think she likes me now after two years, as I always seem to see her glancing at me and I always see her close to me no matter where I am. She has shown me pictures of her pet horse in classes. I have thought about asking one of her friends for the girl's number but I think this may alarm her by thinking I am stalking her.

One of my friends gave me her mobile number last time and I surprised her by sending a romantic text and we started talking from that point. If I was to get her new number what should I say on the phone because I always panic and run out of things to talk about.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006):

If u ask a girl her phone number and she ask u back why would i give it to u what would u say?

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2006):

Wendyg agony auntWhat harm would it do getting her number ? I cant see the harm, you like you before she probably still does! Start along the lines of how are you and let the converstaion evolve, and ask her if she would like to join you at the flciks something like that. If she liked you all that time ago, its possible she still does, and as you were the one to call it off, she may feel that she dare not ask you.. so its over to you! take a chance!

Good luck

x

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntDear Reader,

most definately in love!

Of course you get this girls number! She said herself she likes you for not trying to act cool so if u be yourself there is a major chance you won't run out of things to talk about.

Why would she think you are stalking her? She likes you, it's obvious, so if she did think you were stalking her (I'm sure she won't) she'd be proud to have you around! Go get her number, you like her, she likes you. What more do you want?

She'd be lucky to have you, by reading your problem I can tell she would be lucky to be with you and proud that you're her guy. I can tell you are not afraid to be a bit sesitive, as you're worried about what this girl may think, which is brilliant. You don't act like a fool to impress people, because this girl likes you for yourself. You're the man of her dreams. Go For It! Like I said, anyone would be lucky to know you, you sound like what most girls can only imagine. Follow your heart, find your happiness. *Friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know they're there*

All the Best and Blessed Be,

Phoebe

xxx

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