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writes:i'm kinda of confused. I went out with this guy a while ago and for the 1st few month is was really unhappy and was like i hope we get back together and thought about him almost constently. now i still think about the time when we were together but if he like went off and got some random girl pregnant i really wouldn't care. i would actually feel bad for her. i think i am over him but why does he just randomly pop into my head and like doesn't go away.it gets so annoying at times. does this mean im not over him if hes still like in my head? i've also like completly taken everything about him out of my life i deleted all his screen names, phone number and stuff like that. If I am over him why does he keep coming back in my head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): I'm in a very similar situation. I think I am over someone, but they are on my mind a lot too.
If this guy was to contact you and tell you that he wanted to see you, would you run to see him? Would you feel all excited and happy? If so, then I'd say that you are probably not over him.
If you really do not have any secret hope that you will be together again, then it could be that you still just care for the guy. If you care about someone, then of course you won't just forget them.
Or if this was a first relationship, that can also make it stick in your mind. My advice, if you really want to try and get over him, is to try and think of all of the reasons why it didn't work out, and why you split up. If you go over in your head all of the nice, romantic lovey-dovey times, it will bring all of the old feelings back. So try and focus on what went wrong, and see if that helps.
Good luck. x
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