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writes: Dear Cupid ,There is this boy at school who has always liked me. He has told my friends and myself and I have always liked him, but he has a girlfriend.He flirts with me on the phone and on msn, but he blanks me face to face. It's as if im invisible, but he does stare at me all the time when he thinks I'm not looking, I'm very confused by him. Does he love me or fancy me or not?I feel that if he did he should tell me or show me and especially not blank me out!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (6 March 2005):
 This boy probably does fancy you, finds you attractive but he doesn't love you. He has a girlfriend which does state that he is already 'involved' with someone. This will account for him blanking you when you see him as well as the fact that he could be somewhat shy. My guess is that it is simply a case of raging hormones attempting to settle down. You are both at school and trying to get used to the opposite sex and dicovering that you are attracted to each other. He sounds a bit immature in that he is flirtatious when you aren't face to face. Remember that he does have a girlfriend and even though you may all be young, you need to consider her feelings. How would you feel if he was your boyfriend and she was the recepient of his flirty phone calls and texts?If I was you, I would simply ignore him now. He is cautiously testing the waters with you but not wanting to jump in the deep end. Find someone to be friends with who isn't seeing someone else and is able to return your affections.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2005): He doesn't like you. It's just the thrill of getting caught. If he did like you then YOU would be his girlfriend. You shouldn't disrespect another female like that. Men are only pigs if we allow them to be. Stop allowing it. How would you like it if you caught your man flirting like that? It's not so much fun being on the other end.
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