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female
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writes:Hiya guys, One question about my ex bf, weve been split for about 3 months,we talk eveyday and see each other most days, but when i do see him he flirts with other girls and talks as in what he wants to do to them ( he nows these girls and so do i), but aparently when im not there he doesnt just talks to them and carries on with pool games without a sign of flirting WHY DOS HE DO THAT?Then he tells me hes meet this girl from ireland that hes madley in love with her and that hes going out with her, ive seen the messeges and do belive thisShes coming from ireland to visit nxt july, they only met on line last week, but he still tells me about it, we also sleep together sometimes as well, we havent done since he started dating her tho,But there is also my 2 friends they say he still likes me but if he does why are we not bk together and y is he dating someone else, they say that i just cant see it but i really dont think he does Oh my god please help im so confusedzara birmingham
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (24 December 2008):
he has moved on, stop listening to his friends - if he still wanted you he wouldn't be seeing someone else. Stop sleeping with him, avoid him totally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Sorry my mistake, he's already found someone. Stop having sex with him, he's found a new girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): This is your ex boyfriend, you are not going out any more. He wants to remind you that you and him are finished and he is free to date anyone. Your having sex with him, and you talk and go out. Fine, as long as you realise that he's finished with you and even though you have sex, he's looking for someone serious to love and settle down with. Your ex is a fee man, he's looking at other women and trying to find a new girlfriend. He'll have sex with you until he finds somebody better. Your in a friends who have sex situation, he doesn't love you, because if he did, he would treat you better. He's just passing time until he meets someone he likes.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (24 December 2008):
 He was using you for sex, now he has met another girl online and you are not having sex anymore. The reason he flirts with other girls around you and tells you in depth about the girl he is in love with? He is a dick. I went through something similar with an ex. He would call me and tell me about the things him and his new gf were doing, just feeding his own ego because he knew how much I loved him and I guess he got a kick out of hurting me and dragging me along. Stop talking to this horse's ass. If he liked you, he would tell you, and as you said you would be together. Instead he is telling you about a girl he is in love with... And flirting with other girls around you. Why would he be telling you this if he loved and wanted to be with you? As I said I believe you were being used for sex. Even if, and it's a huge IF, he was interested in you still, why would you want him?? Clearly he thinks he can treat you however he wants and you will still be there. Get self respect. You can do better, easily. Please stop talking to this guy. Good luck.
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