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*lovemymochafrapp
writes:Here's the situation.I like this guy, and he's really..cool.He has blonde/orangish hair, and he's superrr cute.He's an athlete, he plays football and baseball for our school.I don't know if he likes me back. He 'annoys' me alot, (even though i don't really find it annoying since i like him). During class, he'll take my bag when i'm not looking, and wrap the handle around his foot, so I can't get it. He leans ALL the way over just to mark on my arm with pen and make me scream from being scared. He sometimes stabs me (not hard) with pens/pencils. And he kicks and hits me (not hard, softly) sometimes. My friend thinks he likes me, and I tell her he's just trying to get on my nerves. Also, he's Caucasian and i'm African American. I don't know if he really likes black girls, or if he just likes white girls. There's not many white guy/black girl relationships at our school, i've seen only like 3. [There's tons of interracial relationships here, but hardly white guy/black girl].Does it seem like he likes me?!I want to go out with him. But I'm wayyy to shy to ask him, and I know he wouldn't either if he DOES like me. Also, i've only been in 1 serious relationship that lasted 8 months, and we never kissed or held hands. Only hugged every so often. I want my next relationship to be totally different.HELPPP WITH BOTH ?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): To be honest, i don't think that sounds like particularly normal behaviour for a guy when he likes a girl. It sounds quite weird, and almost like bullying.I think this guy sounds like bad news. But, i'd suggest getting a close friend to ask him what he thinks of you, and why he does the things that he's been doing. It could well be that he's picked up on the fact that you like him, and is just using it so he can screw you around, without any consequences for him. Don't put up with any rubbish from a man you like, when you wouldn't put up with the same treatment from a friend.Don't worry about the relationship side of things! Easier said than done, i know. You're only 13-15, just get out there, get to know some guys just as close friends, understand a bit more about how a nice guy should treat you. When the times right, you'll meet someone who likes you for you, as well as finds you attractive, and that's about as good as it gets! Just don't rush into anything, and you won't get hurt.Hope this helps.Hope this helps
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