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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone,I am going to start off by saying a little about my issue so you can get a feel of it and then you can tell me what you think. I had been dating this guy for about 10 months in those 10 months a found out a couple of lies he had told me. They were small lies like where he was going or with who. Remember I was not his gf just dating. Well in the end he decides to tell me he doesn't want to be with me because I am too jealous, I am not the one for him, he has no feelings toward me, and we are going no wheres with this relationship. I decide that if that was his choice then I would let it be. We had been planning a trip for the past 3 months ... so I of course after what he told me thought I wasnt going. He called me a day before the trip to tell me he would like for me to go with him as friends for me not to get my hopes up. My question is if he has no feelings towards me and does not plan on making me his gf ... why would you take me in a family trip where all his family is going to be at??? I am very confused what do you think he is looking for???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): He is done with you but maybe not his family. They might be assuming you are coming and he is keeping up appearances not letting them know he ruin the relationship with his lies.
Whatever it is something is not right, for he is very clear he is over you.
If you are very close to his family and would enjoy the trip in spite of him being there then might as well go, enjoy the trip and ignore him. Your trip with him will end up being a miserable reminder that he is through with you.
This is his mess not yours, any person that lies about dumb little things has a problem with the truth and you are better off without him.
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 You answered your own question.
"He called me a day before the trip to tell me he would like for me to go with him as friends for me not to get my hopes up."
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