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writes:i have a super huge problemme and my boyfriend (well ex i duno) have been together for 8 months. and for the past 8 months he has talked to me either by seein me text or email everyday. he texts me every morning before he goes to work because i can't be with him physically as he is training. and it's been 2 days on thursday he told me we would meet this saturday i thought on friday that he's probably just fell asleep or sumthin and then it got to 2:30pm on saturday and i've been out of my head with worrie i only have his mobile number and he never uses his computer anymore and i don't know his parents house number or anything. i thought he loved me we made plans he even said we'd get engaged in march and live together in july. even if he was in the biggest mood with me ever he would of texted me some abuse or a question by now. i keep thinkin ridiculous thoughts. can anyone give me any suggestions on what i can do i've played the waiting game for 2 days and it may not seem like alot but it is for me and him especially when he said he'd deffinatly see me today. i feel so let down and hurt and i'm really mad i really hope his fone has broke or something although it keeps ringing out. i just don't get it even if he dodn't wana be with me he'd tell me he's so upfront. can anyone help me please this seems like a really stupid thing to ask for help over but has anyone got any suggestions he's the love of my life. i don't ever wana loose him
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou!x
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 I think you're going to have to play the waiting game for a bit longer. Then when he does get in touch, he will have an answer for you. I understand your concern if you've been in contact every day and now two days of nothing. He could have lost his phone or there may be a resonable explanation for this. On the other hand, you seem to be insecure about something and I will tell you that when guys feel an insecure woman they start to wonder what is wrong with her and start to doubt why they are with her.
So, my advice to you, go on about your life. Do your own things and if he calls you, don't ask right away for an explanation. Give him a chance to explain. In time if he doesn't, then you could ask. Keep your chin up. I find that when you expect the worst, you get it. When you expect the best, you get that..
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