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writes:I would like to know if ure b/f calls another girl and that girl calls him also, isn't that cheating. Why i'm saying that is cause he already did that to me they used to call each other with some other girl, but then he used to tell me that she's just a friend but later on i found out that he cheated with her behing my back. Now the same thing is happening again he's telling me again she's just a friend but he's lied to me about her already telling me he does not know where the girl lives or work, but when i called her she told me a different story he told me that he took her name out of the phonebook. But i just saw that she was still smsing him i mean what shuld i make out of this whole mess cause he's already done it before what r the chances he's not going to do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Hi,
yep, he's cheating on you - again by the sounds of it.
So why are you still with him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): My husband did the same...however I didn't know he was still talking to his ex. When I found out I confronted him...he said they were just friends. I have discovered that there is something called "an emotional affair". Sex doesn't have to be involved for it to be an affair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Well it seems very suspicious, and you have a right to be concerned. This is not an age for most men to settle down, they have their freedom from their parents, and now they have a new existence with women. I think your man is showing he is un relaible, and you might consider dumping him and moving on.
Talking alone is not cheating; it depends on what they talk about. When they spend more time with someone else then their partner, then I think it can be considered cheating because most of your time is with someone else. Relationships require a bond, and it seems he has a closer bond with her, and she , the other woman seems to agree with this.
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