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*ukefortender
writes:I live a great love life with my wife, she's the answer of God to me, i always remember that. But why marriage is so hard sometimes? If God made men to live with women, why both are so incompatibles sometimes? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): "God" made men and women to impregnate each other with the best genes and then raise the kids in the best way possible. Our happiness was never the main priority and it has been compromised for reproduction purposes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Life is a huge test. It is a test of your moral character in all ways. God is testing you to do the right thing at all times. And learning to accept your wife and her learning to accept you are part of that. When you are married they say, "Let no man put assunder that which God has brougth together." That means the media, other people, careers, even your own attitudes / choices and hers, too. The media teaches men to hate women and women to hate men. This is wrong. It has always been. In the past men thought women were objects and mentally stupid, barely human. Now it is every movie and t.v. show, song on the radio, etc. Men and women are not shows as equal partners who bring their own unique gifts to the table. Instead they are shown as the "annoying, stupid, pig/slut, gold digger, player, etc etc" and even friends and family continue to push this way. I think the test gets harder and harder for us all.
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reader, BellyDancerAme  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 love never runs smoothly, God made men to live with women so that we could continue the race, he also made everyone differnet and gave us all indivdual personalities. If he wanted our lives to be easy he would have created everyone with personalites that worked well together.
See it as a challenge that he has set you if you give up on your relationship god has proved you are weak, if you continue and make it better he will see you are strong.
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