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writes:Hey all, I basically would love some opinion's. Very short and sweet, I am 22, gentlemen in question i assume early-mid 30's. The situation:I drop my brother to school and theres a dad who has two young boys, he's very cute as he holds both boys hands and their bags.Anyways for past year he will look and smile,different to friendly smile. I smile back few times and it's obvious he looks for me. When he drives past he will turn his head to look at me and then look forward sexy smile.Recently i get shy soi will not look but he will stare. I talk the on phone alot recently and now he has changed, he will not give me way when driving,and stares but looks annoyed at me.All i am wondering is what you think? if he liked me surely he would talk, even say hi. I am not sure if he is married, would love to find out. We are both indian asian. Can't get him out my mind.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 October 2012):
 AT 22 and short he probably is thinking.. what a sweet nice TEENAGE older sister.... seriously honey at 22 years young you may think you look mature but I'm betting you still look like a child to him...
do you really think that a single dad would have custody of two small boys? NOT likely.. in my office one parent takes mornings the other takes afternoons.. if mom likes to cook dinner I'm betting she goes into the office early and dad takes the morning shift so she gets the boys after school...
he's probably picked up on the fact that you find him attractive and are subtly hitting on him without even realizing it and it's become annoying to him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 October 2012):
 Does it matter? He most likely has a wife at home.
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reader, Abella +, writes (18 October 2012):
 By mid 30s he's no longer the cut boy at school who uses a a stare as code for "i like you'. He's more sophisticated than that.
How could you know, he could be thinking, "gee I wish my wife looked that good in the morning" or "my wife used to look that good in the morning" or "wonder where her husband is?" or even "look, don't touch, but gee she is cute". or worse, "gee those pants are tight, how does she manage to walk?"
The fact that he has not approached you for a talk tends to suggest that he is already taken or is not interested in you 'like that'.
Yes you have come to the right conlusion. Neither conclusion will results in a date.
The first conclusion is that you are eye candy and that he is now trying to control the urge to look.
And yes, IF he was really serious he would have talked by now.
But, if he's off the market there are thousands like him out there who are not off the market.
If a guy does not seem interested then take your cue from that. Keep an eye out for a guy who IS interested. When a guys is genuinely interested they move fast and ask you on a date. Men are competitive. They like to win the race and win the prize.
I think this guy who stares is off the market.
But there are hundreds of other guys in your area who would be interested.
ALWYS look at a guys actions. They speak volumes and tell his intentions by his actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2012): To be honest, I cant figure out what was that all about..Just because he stares doesn't mean he likes you the way you thought he likes you.I mean, maybe his just being friendly because if a guy likes a girl believe me he will come up to you and ask for ur name and start conversation. Even ask for your number..If his just smiling and staring doesn't mean anything much to me but just being friendly and that's all about it.However dont make your yourself crazy analyzing things, just enjoy it, maybe one day he will have the nerve and start a convo with you. Just wait for it.Just smile, look pretty, be friendly and enjoy the moment..good luck girl...
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