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writes: If a man is exposed to a lot of attractive females or is exposed to the constant media of actresses, lingerie models, porn stars, etc, will he see his girlfriend as less attractive and/or value her less? The article below seems to say that this is the case.Honest answers from men appreciated, thanks!http://www.abc.net.au/science/news/stories/2007/1881621.htm
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reader, duce00 +, writes (7 September 2007):
Interesting article,
I would say there might be some truth to it but its still not a thorough study. Its probably accurate like crime statistics are. The numbers dont tell the whole story.
Can you imagine what happens to the guys who are "chronically exposed to attractive young women" as they said? Do you think that those little hussies are ready to get old and grey with them? Hmmmmm Im betting no. This article reminds me of a saying I heard from a college math teacher.
"Theres two kinds of people who use statistics, politicians and liars"
I think you get the point.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (7 September 2007):
I don't need to read the article to know that for me this isn't true. Of course there will be women who are more attractive (physically) than my woman, but that won't make ME value my woman any less.
For me, it's not just the physical beauty. It's everything else that makes me love her. It's her smile, her humor, the way she leans on my shoulder when she wants to get closer to me, her walk, her talk, the way she giggles at my lame jokes, the way she whispers my name when we make love, how she makes me feel....how she loves ME. Just looking at another woman won't make value my woman any less - in fact, looking at another woman might just make me look at mine and bask in all the good and beautiful qualities she has. But, that's just me.
But sad to say, I don't have a woman right now :(
Hope this helps.
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