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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I understand sometimes if a significant other cheats once it can maybe be forgiven in some realtionships--and if he is truly trying to make the relationship work and tries to change his ways...but just curious what others think...If a signaficant other cheats how many times is it to the point where they cannot be forgiven? I havent been cheated on, but found out the guy I was sleeping with once every few weeks for the last 6 months (who is also my ex) is a new relationship that he didnt tell me about. I am not doing it any longer...but I am curious to know if his current relationship if he would be forgiven if she knew (which she probably wont) but i wonder if they will work out sometimes I miss him and i am waiting for them to break up because I refuse do have any type of contact with him right nowSo if a man is cheating on his gf every once in a while for 6 months..will he stay with her? does he love her? Obviously if he thought it was a one time mistake it wouldnt have happeneed more than once?Please anyone give me your opinions, if my question even makes sense ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): A man can love a woman and still cheat on her. Just like there are men that beat up women, and others that would not dream of it, so too, there are men that will cheat on women and others that always control themselves.
This man is bad, why do you want him? You need to learn more about yourself and why you allow yourself to be treated this way.
No amount of love for a woman will change this man, he will only change if he wants to do it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
He still loves her. He's just having his cake and eating it. Which means he's not really a good guy. Let him go adn find someone else who will give you all his attention.
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