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anonymous
writes:OK... If a chick has sex many times (like a hell of a lot of times), does the feeling feel less satifying after a while... i'm thinking it would hey. And is it the same with masturbation? If one does it really often, does it feel less good after a while. and is this change in the persons mind? or is it something inside that just loses its feeling after too many times of physical contact and orgasms?thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Should you be doing your homework rather than being on these internet sites?
From the age range above, it seems "you" have been quite sexual active. Are you having sex with more than one guy? Or is it just one guy?
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (5 March 2007):
The main thing to understand is that while sex does have a physical basis, it is controlled by the brain.
The brain will determine whether a woman enjoys sex and masterbation.
The brain gets reminded of sex when a woman has sex. So the more sex a woman has, the more she wants. The less she has, the less she wants.
Sex with a new partner can be exciting and the brain therefore makes it enjoyable, even if it is a little clumsy.
Sex with a long term partner changes over time, as the partners get better at knowing what the other partner likes. The initial excitement changes into something else, a deeper emotional experience.
If the relationship with the long term partner is bad, perhaps arguing or resentment, then sex with them will become bad too, even if physically it should be good.
Lots of sex with lots of different partners without any emotional commitment can feel empty after a while and thus less enjoyable.
It's a funny question to ask, but as you are young, don't worry - masterbate as much as you like - you won't be ruining anything!
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reader, TygersDream  +, writes (5 March 2007):
Sex is like going to see the movies: Some movies are good, most movies are awful, and a few movies make you want to watch it again and again and again. It doesn't MATTER how long we've been watching tv, we NEVER get tired of it. We ALWAYS have to turn it on. We pay MONEY to go see something that might not even be WORTH IT!! But it doesn't mean we stop watching it, or that the next movie isn't going to make us jump in our seats.
The quality of sex, whether it's good or it's bad or whether we lose that feeling? Yes, we can lose that feeling if we do it for the wrong reasons ie. trying to impress someone, boredom, loneliness, heartache. We can lose that feeling if we are heartbroken by our past loves or if we are bored or falling out of love with our current love. But it doesn't mean that we will never feel that excitement again.
Yes, you can get bored with masturbation. Sometimes you might want to do it every day, but then the hunger goes away and other things interest you. But then maybe a few months/years later the hunger will come back again and you will try something different and you'll fall in love with yourself again.
Of course, the FIRST orgasm is always memorable, but it doesn't mean that you'll never experience something greater than that in future. If you are careful with your body ie. cut your nails, wash your hands, don't put any food inside your vagina, then your vagina will not be damaged no matter how many times you masturbate. In fact, it's safer than sex.
But yes, the quality of orgasms depend on your state of mind and your heart, which is why I advise you that sex is a very sacred thing. You can't use it to make somebody fall in love with you, or to get rid of a past hurt or just to satisfy your hunger.
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